Blogpost #5 (Quick Blog): Single on Valentine's Day

         Sometimes, when we are lucid in dreaming something about love that we can control, we choose not to wake up early because sometimes fantasy is more likely to be good than the reality. Like for our love life, if we have a god story in our dream which maybe we wished that someday will happen.Occassionally, when we wake up, it screwed all those fantasies, then *poof!* back to reality. We should face that in real state some of us our single and having a feeling that we are loser because no one treat them as their special someone.

          It has only one week to go before the Valentine's day. People, most like the "lovers" are really get excited about this day. Why? It is a delucional day that chocolates and flowers float together in the air. So, maybe this day which is the Valetine's Day most like to be a panicky day and some tell  this a desperate day for most people who find themselves a special someone so, they can go with the flow of this day. "Love is in the air" is a motto to all lovers out there.

          But, the most questionable and interesting question that will always ask every time the heart's day will come is that "Do Valentine's Day are only for those lovers?". A kind of question that can automatically answered by no, but some can't avoid to ask this question because some of them are single and ave a bitter taste in love because obviously, they dao't have a love life.

          So, the thing is, how we can enjoy this day without having our special someone? a fullfillment joy that can compare to all lovers out there who also celebrate the heart's day?

          As Catherine Osborne explains how can we enjoy that day in the article"Valentines Day - Love is NOT Just For Couples!" in the website upshiftcoaching.com, she explains further that it is not good choosing over to stay at your home so that you can avoid those lovers walking slowly. Because it doesn't shows the good approach to it, even you do it to avoid those fact. It came a long that you will still feel that you are sad because you are not one of those. She advice that this is like a thing or myth that you do believe even there' a clear thought that it can be change. She express more that we could change our perspective about the Valentine's Day. That we could have a time to focus on what we have, rather than on what we feel we've missing.


          As I read the whole article, I can say it is very short article for this area of love. However, it is an article that can persuade people who are single and satisfy them that Valentine's Day is no longer for romantic love only. It has a fact that in this day, we can show to those people who love us that we appreciate them all this time. Furthermore, it only shows us that love is not about a two people who love each other. Thus, love is all about you treat and appreciate those things that someone done to you.

         As Catherine Osborne leaves one of those message who inspires me a lot, "A person’s worth comes from who they are, not who they are with.". Meaning that neither the person you are with will never dictate on what will feelings would you have but it is yourself who will decide and choose what will you do to make your worth being appreciated not only of those people around you but also for yourself.

         Another article that I read entitled "Lucid Dream Wife" by Rise Alise in the website of luciddreamingstories.com, it's actually a kind of love story happened in his lucid dreaming. On how they were happy with the girl he love but he didn't get a chance to have her in real life. And he tell that even though he has a not good life here in real life, he can still enjoy appreciate it because of his dream with his love one. Further more, he realize that there's a deep meaning between those dream. Find out what is it when you read. And then you will realize those things that he thought that even if you are a single in real life, you can still bear with it because you have the thing that no one will know that made you happy, and that  is because of your dream.

          He's story in lucid dreaming was good. And I am pretty sure that he had fall in love it over and over again because myself either went to that point. That feeling that you take a lot of emotion in your dreams which can affect our reality. But there's a point of him that some kind I am disappoint to, not because he wanted to continue all over again his dreams but I he might consider his dream, a another world or somehow kind of a real thing that really exists. I can say that even though the things that happen in your dream is happier to live with that than the real one. I think he should focus more in his reality because somehow he is responsible of why those some miserable things happened to him like a loner or something. You should do things that makes you a happy and contented person don't just rely on your dream because it's only
a dream, and it is a part of our life that motivates us to have a our life more positive than before.


        But somehow, I agree with Rise Alise statement which is, " I know hiding behind dreams will only worsen my life in reality." because he understand everything. That dream is only a dream that sometimes we forget about it. It is only a one of those thing that inspires us in our daily life. And we should clear that not only for him but also for us.
 
      So, for those single out there who undergo once in a romantic lucid dream, don't consider it as a real one or expect that it will come true. Because sometimes, dreams doesn't matter in life, it is only a thing that gives live entertainment and inspiration for us to have a happier life. And of course, don't loose hope to be happy in Valentine's Day, make your plans and do some things that can make you happy as well as those lovers out there. Have a Happy Valentine's Day everyone!:)